Cats NEVER cuddle when you want them too. When I want them to cuddle they’re all like OMG NO, then when you’re trying to do something important they have to be right in your face… Andddd the cat just peed on my bed.. Happy Saturday.
I swear, it is too early to be awake, and Hannah is torturing my cats, and she won’t let me go back to sleep… WHY. Plus I have to be at work in 2 hours. I hate Saturdays.
I love this.—
This was inspired by a post that I read and got me into my feelings.
Mother’s day and Father’s day have never been the best of days for me.
My mother was a deadbeat until recently when I was forced to move in with her.. she’s still a deadbeat. She never raised me when I was younger, from a young age my grandmother and grandfather (rest their souls) fearlessly took me in as another child of their own. Even though all their children were already raised. When I was 10 years old I lost my grandmother who was pretty much the only mother I had ever known, and in the event of that my aunt took me in and raised me best she could. She did an amazing job, she has helped me be the person I am today. I can always count on her more than my own mother.
So for Mother’s Day I celebrate with my aunt and her husband and their baby girl, because she has been my “Mother.”
and as far as Father’s Day goes, the only father I have ever known (my grandfather) passed away last year from Alzheimer’s. Sometimes I think about reaching out to my birth father but then there isn’t any use, he didn’t want to be a part of my life since birth.
It’s a hard fact of reality that not all children get the privilege of growing up with their birth mother and father, which is truly unfortunate. But it’s also a nice reminder that there are people out their with a big enough heart to care for the children that they did not give birth too.
With that being said Happy Mother’s Day to the Mother’s who may not have birthed the children they have, and for having a big enough heart to accept them into your life.
I’ve been MIA from tumblr I think I’m about to make my reappearance! Dun dun dun! I have to work in 3 hours.. And when I get off I have to make a cheesecake for tomorrow. Legit.